On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event
On The Spot Dating

On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event

Thu, November 5, 2026 · Gossip Grill, San Diego

Gay womenLGBTQ+
DateThu, November 5, 20266:30 PM – 9 PM
VenueGossip Grill1220 University Avenue

About this event

On The Spot Dating is the only dating show where first dates happen that same night. This time it's a night for our sapphic singles! 🌈 Three mystery contestants, one Chooser, and zero face time until the match is made live on stage. It's a place where live entertainment meets intentional dating.

🌈Sapphic Singles Edition!💕

The dating rounds at this event are for queer women, trans women, and nonbinary folks who date within the LGBTQ+ community. Not in that group? You are still absolutely invited! Anyone and everyone is welcome to come watch the show, cheer loudly, and join the mixer after.

📅 Thursday, November 5th | ⏰ Doors at 6:30 PM, Show at 7:00 PM 📍Gossip Grill | 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

👉Want to be on stage as a Chooser or Contestant?

Fill out this form for a chance to be selected!

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Here’s how it works:

💘 Game Show: 2 rounds of gameplay in front of a live audience. Each round, Choosers and Mystery Contestants (separated by a partition) get matched live on stage, and each match goes on a date that same night. The dates are sponsored by local partnering businesses, so matches don’t spend a dime.

💬 Singles Mixer: After the show, the floor opens to everyone. This is your chance to shoot your shot with the contestants who weren’t picked, or with that cutie you spotted in the crowd. Singles, non-singles, it’s the best part of a party with none of the small talk dread.

💌 Missed Connections: Locked eyes with someone but never got their number? Submit an anonymous Missed Connection for anyone in the room, and we’ll send it to them the next day. What they do with it is up to them!

🥂 Everyone’s invited: Bring your single friends, your partner, or just yourself. Whether you’re here to meet someone, make friends, or just watch the chaos unfold, you’ll fit right in.

This is not speed dating, we promise! No timers, no rotating tables, no forced awkward silences, just real people having real conversations in front of a live audience.

Part game show, part social experiment, part singles mixer, On The Spot Dating turns one night into a live dating show and a genuine chance to connect.

Whether you’re in the hot seat or cheering from the crowd, come for the fun, stay for the vibes, and maybe leave with a date! 🌈

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