
About this event
On The Spot Dating is the only dating show where first dates happen that same night. Three mystery contestants, one Chooser, and zero face time until the match is made live on stage. It's a place where live entertainment meets intentional dating.
📅 Tuesday, November 24th | ⏰ Doors at 6:30 PM, Show at 7:00 PM 📍The Rabbit Hole | 3377 Adams Ave, San Diego, CA 92116
👉Want to be on stage as a Chooser or Contestant?
Fill out this form for a chance to be selected!
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A Chooser asks the questions, the crowd watches it all unfold, and a match gets made without either person seeing the other's face. Then they go on an actual date that same night, no ghosting allowed.
Live dating show meets social mixer, no awkward silences included. After the show, the floor opens up for a singles mixer where everyone in the room, contestants and crowd members alike, is invited to the after-party. Come solo, come with your friends, or come be someone's hype squad, you'll fit right in no matter what!
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Here’s how it works:
💘 Game Show: 2 rounds of gameplay in front of a live audience. Each round, Choosers and Mystery Contestants (separated by a partition) get matched live on stage, and each match goes on a date that same night. The dates are sponsored by local partnering businesses, so matches don't spend a dime.
💬 Singles Mixer: After the show, the floor opens to everyone. Singles, non-singles, it's the best part of a party with none of the small talk dread.
🥂 Everyone's invited: Bring your single friends, your partner, or just yourself. Whether you're here to meet someone, make friends, or just watch the chaos unfold, you'll fit right in.
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This is not speed dating, we promise! No timers, no rotating tables, no forced awkward silences, just real people having real conversations in front of a live audience.
Part game show, part social experiment, part singles mixer, On The Spot Dating turns one night into a live dating show and a genuine chance to connect. Whether you're in the hot seat or cheering from the crowd, it's a good time either way.
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