Cougar Date Night Speed Dating in Lawrence, KS at The Harbour Lights

About this event

Some things genuinely get better with time. Tonight is proof of that.

This is a speed dating night designed for confident, self-assured women ages 40 and older who are open to meeting younger men, and for younger men who are genuinely interested in and drawn to older women. No awkwardness, no explanations needed. Just two groups of people who know exactly what they are looking for, coming together for a genuinely wonderful evening.

Come meet real, local singles in person in Lawrence, KS at The Harbour Lights. Good wine, warm company, and the kind of conversation that actually goes somewhere.

Note on Age Range: This event is designed for women ages 40 and older and men under the age of 40. If you are close to either range and feel you would be a great fit for this group, you are welcome to reach out before reserving your spot. Our goal is always to create a well-balanced evening where everyone has a genuine chance of meeting someone they connect with.

🎟️ Ticket Pricing

Reserve your spot early! Ticket prices increase once the first 20 tickets have been sold.

Our events are intentionally kept at a comfortable size to ensure everyone has enough time to meet each participant. As events fill up, ticket prices increase, so we recommend reserving your spot early to lock in the best price.

Don’t wait. Secure your ticket before the first 20 spots are gone!

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How the Night Works

Start with a Social Mixer

Kick things off with a relaxed mingle. Grab a drink (not included, but highly encouraged), settle in, and get comfortable before the rounds begin.

Easy, Guided Conversations

We keep things flowing so you don’t have to overthink it. Each round includes a fun icebreaker, and our host guides the room so everything feels smooth, upbeat, and never awkward.

Quick, Real Connections

You’ll spend a few minutes with each person, just enough time to catch a vibe before rotating. It’s light, fun, and way more natural than sitting through a full date.

Match the Ones You’re Into

After each round, you’ll mark “friend,” “date,” or “none” on our simple matching system. If it’s mutual, we’ll send you each other’s info the next day.

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A Few Things to Know

⏰ Please arrive 15–30 minutes early to check in and get settled. We start on time, and late arrivals may not be accommodated.

💡 This is meant to be fun! The best way to enjoy it is to stay open, be present, and focus on meeting new people. Some people leave with a match, others leave with new connections—either way, it’s a great night.

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Spots are limited to keep the experience smooth and the ratios balanced. Once we’re full, we’re full.

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Event Terms & Policies

Important Safety Notice Please read carefully: Sips and Sparks does NOT conduct background checks, verify identities, or screen participants in any way. Just like any dating app or social platform, it is entirely your responsibility to exercise caution and perform your own due diligence on anyone you meet at our events.

We strongly encourage you to meet in public places for any follow-up dates and never share sensitive personal information (home address, financial details, etc.)

Your safety is your responsibility. By attending, you acknowledge that you understand these risks.

Age Guidelines & Inclusivity The age range for this event is a general recommendation. We welcome all participants regardless of age or gender and do not verify this information at check-in. Our goal is to create a welcoming and enjoyable environment for everyone.

Event Changes & Cancellations We reserve the right to postpone or cancel events with insufficient registrations. If this happens, you’ll receive either a full refund or the option to transfer your ticket to another event.

Waitlist Information When events sell out, join our waitlist through Eventbrite. You’ll receive an email notification when spots become available and can then secure your ticket through our Eventbrite page. Important: Tickets must be purchased in advance through Eventbrite only.

Accessibility Notice Some venues may not have elevators or full accessibility features. If you need specific accommodations, please contact us at sipsandsparksevents@gmail.com before purchasing your ticket so we can confirm availability at that location.

Safety & Liability By attending, you agree that participation is at your own risk. You release Sips and Sparks LLC, our team, venues, and partners from liability for any accidents, injuries, or damages that may occur during or after the event, including from interactions with other participants.

Photography & Social Media We may take photos and videos during events for promotional purposes. By attending, you consent to being photographed and having your image used in our marketing materials.

Don’t want to be in photos? Simply let our event host know when you arrive, and we’ll make sure to resp