About this event
Why Does Finding Love Feel So Hard Right Now?
Even the most amazing singles struggle. If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “What am I doing wrong? Why can’t I find the right match? Is love really in the cards for me?” – you’re not alone.
Dating today comes with very real challenges. Apps are exhausting, with endless swiping, ghosting, and mixed intentions that leave you drained. Old patterns often repeat, pulling you toward the same types of people and the same disappointing outcomes.
Confidence can take a hit, too – fear of rejection or simply not knowing what to say can make dating feel stressful instead of fun. And for queer singles, the dynamics of identity, expression, attraction partners, degrees of outness, and community culture add layers that mainstream dating advice rarely understands.
It’s no wonder so many smart, capable, and loving people feel stuck, frustrated, or like lasting love is always just out of reach…
If Any of This Feels Familiar, You’re In The Right Place
- You’re exhausted by dating apps, ghosting, and mismatched intentions
- You’ve taken time out for work/family/health - and aren’t sure how to re-enter
- You’ve labeled yourself ‘shy’, ‘too busy’, or ‘not good at flirting’
- You keep things ‘comfortable’ but know you’re actually stuck
- You want to feel attractive and confident - without being something you’re not
That quiet voice that says “I want more”? It’s not wrong. You deserve love that feels exciting, stable, and real. You have a rare opportunity to emerge from your cocoon, start fresh, and transform old habits that no longer serve you.
These questions have real answers - and you don’t have to figure them out alone.
You need guidance. You need to be in the room with other queer singles, alongside Dr. Frankie and her team of LGBTQ+ matchmakers, relationship experts, and coaches who have spent their careers in this community. You need something concrete - tools you can use in your real dating life right away.
Because you’re not starting from scratch. You’ve lived, learned, and grown into someone with depth, heart, and resilience. Now it’s time to channel that into a love life that truly reflects who you are.
Introducing The Queer Love Decoded Program
Your 7-Week Celebration of Confidence, Connection & Love
Little Gay Book’s Queer Love Decoded program is a one-of-a-kind experience that bridges some of the best of what we do in matchmaking, relationship coaching, and speed dating – designed exclusively for lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer-identifying singles who are ready for love.
This 7-week online group program is designed to celebrate how amazing you are while giving you the skills, structure, and support to actually find and attract the kind of person you want to share your life with – drawing from the most effective parts of our matchmaking and coaching work.
This isn’t generic dating advice you consume and forget.
This is a live, guided experience where you actively practice new skills – with expert feedback, structured exercises, and other queer singles alongside you. Because real change in dating doesn’t come from more information. It comes from showing up differently – and practicing that in a space designed for it.
Here’s How It Works
When our clients feel great about themselves mentally, physically, and emotionally, we see them take bolder actions in life and become a magnet for what they want.
Most dating advice tells you what to do - but doesn’t give you a space to actually practice it. This experience is designed differently.
Each week, you’ll learn something specific, apply it immediately, and get feedback in real time - so you’re not just thinking about change, you’re actively creating it.
Queer Love Decoded is like having clinical psychologists, board certified sex therapists, LGBTQ+ matchmakers, and relationship coaches as your support system. We want to celebrate you, show you how fantastic you are, and feel your best!
Can’t make every session live? No problem.
All calls will be recorded - so if you need to miss a week, you’ll be able to catch up and stay on track.