About this event
Queer Love Decoded Program
Queer Love Is Nuanced, Powerful & Worth Doing Differently
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Why Does Finding Love Feel So Hard Right Now?
Even the most amazing singles struggle. If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “What am I doing wrong? Why can’t I find the right match? Is love really in the cards for me?” - you’re not alone.
Dating today comes with very real challenges. Apps are exhausting, with endless swiping, ghosting, and mixed intentions that leave you drained. Old patterns often repeat, pulling you toward the same types of people and the same disappointing outcomes.
Confidence can take a hit, too - fear of rejection or simply not knowing what to say can make dating feel stressful instead of fun. And for queer singles, the dynamics of identity, expression, attraction partners, degrees of outness, and community culture add layers that mainstream dating advice rarely understands.
It’s no wonder so many smart, capable, and loving people feel stuck, frustrated, or like lasting love is always just out of reach…
If Any of This Feels Familiar, You’re In The Right Place
- You’re exhausted by dating apps, ghosting, and mismatched intentions
- You’ve taken time out for work/family/health - and aren’t sure how to re-enter
- You’ve labeled yourself ‘shy’, ‘too busy’, or ‘not good at flirting’
- You keep things ‘comfortable’ but know you’re actually stuck
- You want to feel attractive and confident - without being something you’re not
That quiet voice that says “I want more”? It’s not wrong. You deserve love that feels exciting, stable, and real. You have a rare opportunity to emerge from your cocoon, start fresh, and transform old habits that no longer serve you. But let’s be honest…
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Trouble is, the same qualities that have helped you survive and succeed can sometimes make love feel harder than it needs to be.
How do you take all that makes you special and attract a really amazing person that adores you and cherishes you for who you are?
And how do you find a true partnership? Someone that is ready for a deep, lasting, soul-quenching relationship?
These questions have real answers - and you don’t have to figure them out alone.
You need guidance. You need to be in the room with other queer singles, alongside Dr. Frankie and her team of LGBTQ+ matchmakers, relationship experts, and coaches who have spent their careers in this community. You need something concrete - tools you can use in your real dating life right away.
Because you’re not starting from scratch. You’ve lived, learned, and grown into someone with depth, heart, and resilience. Now it’s time to channel that into a love life that truly reflects who you are.
Meet Your Mentor, Dr Frankie Bashan
Hi, I’m Dr. Frankie Bashan - a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and founder of Little Gay Book. For more than 20 years, I’ve dedicated my career to helping LGBTQ+ singles create the kind of love that feels both exciting and enduring.
Through my matchmaking agency, I’ve facilitated over 25,000 introductions and guided thousands of singles into relationships that are not only lasting but deeply fulfilling. Along the way, I’ve had the privilege of being featured in Cosmopolitan, NPR, Glamour, Curve, and as the Relationship Expert on MTV’s groundbreaking season of ‘Are You The One?’
After decades of coaching and matchmaking - I’ve learned that real transformation only happens when singles feel celebrated for who they are, gain the confidence to show up authentically, and learn the skills to connect with others on a deeper level.
That’s why I created a new program designed to bring these tools, strategies, and insights to more people in a practical, supportive, and hands-on way.
You’ll be supported by my amazing team of LGBTQ+ matchmakers, relationship experts, coaches, and guest specialists - each bringing their own expertise to help you grow faster and feel fully supported.
Introducing The Queer Love Decoded Program
Your 5-Week Celebration of Confidence, Connection & Love
Little Gay Book’s Queer Love Decoded program is a one-of-a-kind experience that bridges some of the best of what we do in matchmaking, relationship coaching, and speed dating - designed exclusively for lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer-identifying sin